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A happy group of villagers going to a wedding. The groom is on the right behind the driver. |
Weddings
Weddings are a huge event here, and we
are now right in the middle of the wedding season. All marriages are
arranged between the bride's and the groom's parents. They only occur
within families from the same caste, and in Chandelao, marriages
never occur within the village. Parents must always find a suitable
match from another nearby village. In addition, although dowries are
officially illegal, they are still very much a part of the overall
negotiations between the two families. We have not attended a whole
wedding – they go on for days – but we have seen and heard many
bits and pieces.
A few nights ago there was a huge
commotion in the street with lots of drums and cymbals. A local lady
from the musicians' caste was getting married, and all her female
friends and relatives were celebrating before the groom arrived. Each
group in turn – children, unmarried women, married women – were
dancing while the older men held 10 rupee notes above the best
dancer's head. At the end of the dance the money was given to the
musicians. It was a wild scene with people jostling, young ladies in
their spectacularly colored finery, loud
drumming and clanging, older ladies singing, and clouds of dust. This
was the start of several days of intermittent partying, fireworks,
and singing and dancing at odd hours of the day and night.
The groom arrived on a horse through a
hastily built, decorated archway the next day. He looked very serious
and hardly cracked a smile. The wedding ceremony itself was very
brief and took place at 11:15 pm – a time that the local astrologer
had determined to be the most auspicious. We had been invited, but
could not keep our eyes open that late. I am sure that we will regret
it later. The following day there was more partying, after which the
groom took the bride away to his village, where the newly married
couple will live with the groom's parents. By this time the groom was
looking a lot happier. Now the archway and the party tent have been
dismantled, but there is still a lot of singing going on in the house
of the bride's parents. Perhaps they are lamenting the loss of their
daughter, and the huge expense of getting her married in the proper
style.
Birds and Animals
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Large male nilgai -- a "blue bull" |
We are constantly
amazed and delighted by the wonderful bird and animal life here. So
far in Chandelao, I have seen 47 species of birds, most of which are
new to me, and many of which are spectacular and/or rare. There are
many more that I have seen but have been unable to identify. The
complete lack of chemicals used in agriculture, the lakes and ponds,
and wide variety of vegetation encourages diversity. Most
exhilarating are large flocks of elegant cranes soaring overhead,
honking gently on their northward migration towards Siberia.
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Elegant blackbuck with corkscrew horns |
Yesterday, we
played hookey in the afternoon, and went on a “jeep safari” from
the hotel along dusty tracks to some even more remote villages. Some
of the villages are inhabited by Bishnoi people who have been
protecting the local animals and plant life for centuries. As a
result the animals are quite unafraid of humans. We stopped to take
pictures of camels, and large numbers of nilgai, huge antelope that
look like a cross between a cow and a horse, with spindly legs and
black and white socks. They are supposedly quite dangerous if
crossed. More special were the blackbucks, a threatened species that
used to be relentlessly hunted for their spectacular black and white
skins and their long corkscrew horns.
Rug weaving and pottery
We also watched a
rug-maker at work, using a huge loom to weave strong camel-hair
carpets that can take from two to six days to complete, depending on
the size.
The potter made
his work look easy, but even spinning the heavy stone wheel with a
stick was a challenge for the brave tourist who tried it, and her
clay pot seemed to have a mind of its own and detached itself from
the stone before completion.
Opium!
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Elderly Bishnoi pours opium |
Elderly Bishnoi
gentleman in this part of the world are partial to opium, which has
been part of the culture for centuries and is not illegal.
They take it in small quantities dissolved in water. The last stop on
our jeep safari was at the house of a wizened 82-year-old who
demonstrated how the opium is prepared and taken. The whole procedure
is ritualized and formal. First a dark red syrup is mixed in a wooden
“Aladdin's lamp” with water, then the mixture is poured through a
conical cloth filter, then the liquid is poured into the palm of the
hand and after a quick offering to one of the gods, is noisily
slurped and the hand is then rinsed clean. The darker red the opium
solution, the stronger it is. Sandy tried some of the pale yellow
stuff – very weak. It had a bitter, distinctly chemical taste,
and no palpable effect.
Photography Project
A German lady is
currently staying here for three weeks as part of a project she has
started to help the village make money through the sale of postcards,
a calendar and eventually a book, based on photos that local children
have taken. You can find her previous assignment in Zanskar, Ladakh
at http://www.kamerakidz.com.
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One of the "camera kids" photos. Go to www.kamerakidz.com for more information |
She arrived equipped with thirteen
cameras donated by German people, and has worked with children in
Class 8, showing them how to take pictures of their families and
activities, like milking a cow/goat, preparing food, playing
games...They select the best photos each day, to encourage further
creativity, and the results have been really promising. It is
refreshing to see the children using cameras, instead of chasing the
tourists yelling “poto” and being disappointed that they can not
get instant copies when they are snapped.
Hindi Lessons
The hotel and
craft-center staff, teachers and school-children all participate in
the effort to teach us Hindi words, though we can't always
distinguish Hindi from Marwari, and we certainly need constant
repetition and practice. Sandy has become adept at reading signs and
is less likely to get lost than his language-teacher wife. We now
have a wider food-vocabulary, and hope it will serve us well when we
are studying menus and conducting basic conversations.
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A "classroom" in Lin's school |
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